WARNING: THIS IS A LONG POST, BUT WORTH THE READ.
IF YOU STRUGGLE WITH MAKING DECISIONS BECAUSE OTHERS AREN’T IN AGREEMENT, THIS IS FOR YOU;
I speak to A LOT of men and women of God that support their spouse in all that they do, but in the midst of it all they lose themselves. I’ve heard everything from
“you have to submit one to another and if the other isn’t in agreement you shouldn’t do it.”
I’ve heard that “God will send confirmation through your husband, so wait for him to hear from him.”
I’ve heard “take it to your pastors and be submissive to their directions.” I’ve even heard “just be the support your spouse needs and the Lord will bless you for being obedient.”
All of these comments came from other believers who believe this is how they should handle things. All of them have a slight difference of opinion, but all of them are unhappy because they feel unfulfilled. I’m still learning and listening to God’s voice and studying for understanding. I don’t know it all, but I do know this; there’s an order to EVERYTHING that God does. When you leave Him out to follow “protocol” chain of command or replace consulting him to be in agreement with others you’re OUT OF ORDER!
We ALL have to give an account for ourselves individually. He deals with us individually and has designated plans for us. Not everybody will be in the front many will be in support of those who are.
I can promise you that the recurring tug you feel in your stomach, the desires that are a constant in your heart and the repetitive thoughts of greater and fulfilment for yourself are NOT by accident and they won’t go away until you do what you’ve been called to do.
If you were thirsty you wouldn’t ask another person to drink for you?
Why ask others for permission to quench the passion, purpose and desires God has put inside you. Do you wonder why others are rejuvenated and you’re dehydrated? It’s because you’re ALWAYS pouring out into others because you feel it’s the right the to do. People are ok with it because they expect to be filled. I know some won’t agree with me, but this is just my perspective. Regardless of how I’ve may feel, ALWAYS remember this; There’s no question on whether a glass is half empty or half full when there’s nothing in it. WHAT’S IN YOUR CUP? #TheresMoreForYouThanThis? #WhatAreYourDreams? #WhatHasGodSaidToYou? #ItsYourTime!
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